I didn’t call them liars for not orgasming from “regular sex.”

I’m calling them out for saying they could “only” orgasm through oral sex.

Because this statement means that they can’t bring themselves to orgasm during masturbation, and if that’s the case, then they need to get in touch with their own body, not put the responsibility for their pleasure solely in other people’s hands (or mouths.)

Yes, many women can’t orgasm from sex alone. But “vanilla P in V penetration” and “oral” are not the only two sex acts, and there are other options that don’t involve coercing our partners.