I “know” what you “really” need because this article is based:

a.) Directly off the work of others such as Oscar Ichazo sand Claudio Naranjo.

b.) Indirectly off of “addiction models” in use elsewhere — such as substance abuse and the “love addict” attachment style.

c.) Directly off our human logical fallacies and short-comings in understanding what we want. Mark Manson wrote a great post on this, and here are three more.