Mm hm.

And perhaps I could have worded my response more clearly:

Other people’s lives — and writing — are not our domain.

Your own comments are riddled with grammatical errors, but I didn’t make it about your worthiness as a person. Because while I agree that polish can help in presentation, I value message most of all. (And for all the showmanship of “suiting up,” I also hear there have been some great communicators who wore robes.)

What you do with your own “full body cringe” in response other people’s lives is your issue — and your business. Just like what they do with their lives is theirs.