Wow, bud. This is literally what we’re talking about.

Even if someone is “a real bitch,”

“[we] deserve a partner who can act and communicate like an adult, who can approach it maturely and constructively, leaving your sense of dignity intact. There is absolutely no need to break someone down in order to say to them, “I don’t like what you’re doing” or “you’re hurting my feelings” or “I don’t want to drink any more” or whatever the fuck.”

Regardless of what she did, there is nothing that warrants calling her a “motherfucker.” Either approach it like an adult or get out.